I find it sad that scenarios like this occur. This happened to my father and I many years ago when I was 23 (ten years ago). He and my mother split when I was two (they weren't married) and I have lived with my mother ever since; she raised my brother and myself alone. Anyway, when this situation occurred ten years ago, the two had an argument and things were said that should not have been said. I hated him for that and I saw, like many times (it built up through time), that the man was not a good fit for me. So, I did not speak to him for months. That was then. Ten years later, I yearn for a relationship with him because you only get one set of parents. Sadly, not all parents and children stay as one. It hurts to hear about this stuff. However, I do not know both sides of the story. I simply hope that the two of you -- whether this will be sooner or later -- will rekindle and find that love again. Good luck to the both of you.