I do believe that when we age, the more we feel we need more responsibilities. Society puts that on our shoulders and adds more on to us through time. Thus, telling us to follow the trend: house, family, job and so on. Adults sprint through life chasing arbitrary steps. This stops us from taking care of ourselves. However, what we must do, as you brilliantly pointed out, is be present and deal with the now instead of the later. Thanks for this great piece!